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To other guys, love is more casual and can change with the seasons.And to others, it is far more serious than my interpretation of it – it is a single-minded commitment to lifelong partnership.In this context, when a man expresses his love to a woman verbally, he feels as though he is committing to or promising that he will live up to some set of expectations of what a “man in love” should be.

They reported noticeably increased levels of arousal over the more revealing pictures in the months of December, January and February - the winter months - than they did in the three summer months of June, July and August.

Furthermore, men who were in the same romantic relationship over the course of the entire study reported similar fluctuations in how attracted they were to their partner.

I mean we all have our occasional bad mood, but a man that blows hot and cold is not experiencing bad moods.

You don’t invest into someone by treating them coldly.

I know I sure have made my share of excuses for these men. When you are crazy about someone, do you really treat them coldly? How do you treat someone you really care about and are thinking of building something lasting and meaningful with? Any man that I am acting hot and cold with is a man that I am not that invested in.

He is stressed, he is overloaded at work, he is scared of his feelings and on and on. I’m erecting boundaries so I can can keep him at arm’s length.

I’m not saying it means I have to marry her, but it means that she has a special place in my heart and I will always do my best to be there for her regardless of how the relationship turns out (within reason).

It means I am promising to be there and to be good to her – and if I break that promise, I will suffer as well.

Most men look at what they say as a sort of promise or commitment, even if it’s an emotionally based discussion.

So saying what seems like a simple three words can actually like a huge risk, promise or commitment to a guy.

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